I read that 48% of men would dump their girlfriend if they gained weight.
Shady.
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Tales of the Unknown
So I decided that I wanted to talk about something pretty...random. It's very common among people, I see it on tv. But it's just something I want to discuss in my own words. Which starts off with....
That significant other. May he or she be the best or the worst to yourself and to others.
I am very fortunate to have a good looking, sweet and kind hearted boyfriend who would stand by me, even through the horrific, mean rants I seem to spew. I'm extremely enthused about it; I'm lucky. Now what about the rest of the women and men in this world? The ones who didn't choose the right one. You know, the one's who use (or perhaps depend) on their boyfriends for money? Or maybe the guys who use women for a good f*#k? Or the one's who committ infidelity? Or the one that I wish could diminish, the relationship where the couple become so narrow minded, that they give the cold shoulder to their own kids. Since when did becoming an adult mean disowning the existence of your children? Is this what the world is coming to? Parents, have you ever thought about you needing help when you reach that old age where you become a kid again, and YOU need your children to help you? Ever thought they they would disown you as well? Leaving you to suffer? No, right? Actions show a lot.
How do people get to that point? Do people not care anymore about morals? Respect? Independence? What about commitment? Insightfulness? Sacrifice? Seems like all that is out of the window for most of the people who live in this world. I am not one to judge, I'm not perfect, but I know when I see the edge, I have to take a few steps back into reality. Believe this. In this vast world, the people who populate it are egoistic, greedy, envious, selfish, arrogant, and verbally or physically abusive. There's no denying it. It's rare to go through a day without hearing something bad. It's in the media. It's among peoples gossip. It's between rivals. It's everywhere. But when are people going to change? Why can't women be more independent? Why can't men be responsible and respectful towards ladies? Why are children being forgotten when their mother or father find a person they think will repair broken woes? I wish I could repair many things I see through life. I wish people were able to use more of their brain than the 20% we were given to use. But it's all God's plan of course.
Does it sound like I'm contridicting myself if I say things are meant to be deranged? Nonetheless, who says it should stay that way? What would you do? Amazingly, I liked to share this with you guys.
2 Corinthians 4:16-18 So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
No matter how problematic your life may be, why can't there be any affection towards one another? Why can't there be more respect, more positive outlooks. What happened to love? There's some percentage in the world, where people are happily devoted to one another. I love using my grandparents as an example. My grandfather is deceased and my grandmother is living with my aunts and grandkids, happily. Besides the fact that my grandfather passed 17 years ago, my grandmother loves him dearly and talks about him all the time and how he was a supportive husband and father. ----
It's all about trust, communication, understanding, and willing to devote. That's all it takes. So why is everyone making it complicated for someone else? Isn't the person you call your significant other the one who should be devoted to you, as well for you to them? I may add as well (even though if you're not married this is still revelent) "once you're married, you're married to the whole family".
Don't forget it.
Logging out now. I'll be back soon with some more...difficult, yet hopefully persuasive blogs.
That significant other. May he or she be the best or the worst to yourself and to others.
I am very fortunate to have a good looking, sweet and kind hearted boyfriend who would stand by me, even through the horrific, mean rants I seem to spew. I'm extremely enthused about it; I'm lucky. Now what about the rest of the women and men in this world? The ones who didn't choose the right one. You know, the one's who use (or perhaps depend) on their boyfriends for money? Or maybe the guys who use women for a good f*#k? Or the one's who committ infidelity? Or the one that I wish could diminish, the relationship where the couple become so narrow minded, that they give the cold shoulder to their own kids. Since when did becoming an adult mean disowning the existence of your children? Is this what the world is coming to? Parents, have you ever thought about you needing help when you reach that old age where you become a kid again, and YOU need your children to help you? Ever thought they they would disown you as well? Leaving you to suffer? No, right? Actions show a lot.
How do people get to that point? Do people not care anymore about morals? Respect? Independence? What about commitment? Insightfulness? Sacrifice? Seems like all that is out of the window for most of the people who live in this world. I am not one to judge, I'm not perfect, but I know when I see the edge, I have to take a few steps back into reality. Believe this. In this vast world, the people who populate it are egoistic, greedy, envious, selfish, arrogant, and verbally or physically abusive. There's no denying it. It's rare to go through a day without hearing something bad. It's in the media. It's among peoples gossip. It's between rivals. It's everywhere. But when are people going to change? Why can't women be more independent? Why can't men be responsible and respectful towards ladies? Why are children being forgotten when their mother or father find a person they think will repair broken woes? I wish I could repair many things I see through life. I wish people were able to use more of their brain than the 20% we were given to use. But it's all God's plan of course.
Does it sound like I'm contridicting myself if I say things are meant to be deranged? Nonetheless, who says it should stay that way? What would you do? Amazingly, I liked to share this with you guys.
2 Corinthians 4:16-18 So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
No matter how problematic your life may be, why can't there be any affection towards one another? Why can't there be more respect, more positive outlooks. What happened to love? There's some percentage in the world, where people are happily devoted to one another. I love using my grandparents as an example. My grandfather is deceased and my grandmother is living with my aunts and grandkids, happily. Besides the fact that my grandfather passed 17 years ago, my grandmother loves him dearly and talks about him all the time and how he was a supportive husband and father. ----
It's all about trust, communication, understanding, and willing to devote. That's all it takes. So why is everyone making it complicated for someone else? Isn't the person you call your significant other the one who should be devoted to you, as well for you to them? I may add as well (even though if you're not married this is still revelent) "once you're married, you're married to the whole family".
Don't forget it.
Logging out now. I'll be back soon with some more...difficult, yet hopefully persuasive blogs.
Almost Here
This will officially be my first blog. Needless to say, I'm beginning to write blogs just for entertainment. Yours and mine. Truly. I suppose my blogs can be whatever I may want it to be. Perhaps about my love life. Or maybe my denial about working with animals and how I passionately hate it. Or maybe I can discuss the issues of the world. Maybe as a feminist. Maybe as an opinionator.
So it begins. It's possible that later on tonight at 9pm, I'll get back on and write a few thoughts to share among all you good people. Write to you invisible readers soon.
So it begins. It's possible that later on tonight at 9pm, I'll get back on and write a few thoughts to share among all you good people. Write to you invisible readers soon.
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